Ask to meet, or answer an ask
Pick a moment and write a short note; they accept with a line saying where to find them, or say not this time.
For people who go. You need a booking, showing at the event first.
Step by step
Step 1: Pick a moment
Before it starts, the break or after, and a note of up to 200 characters.
Step 2: Sent
They see who you are, the event and your note.
Step 3: Someone asks you
Accept with a line on where to find you, or say not this time. They are never told why.
Step 4: Agreed
You are connected and both see the meeting point.
Good to know
At most ten asks a day, and one open ask per person per event.
Who can ask you is your choice in People › Settings.
Related guides
- RelatedSee who is goingIn People › Who is going, switch on showing for an event you booked; you then see the others booked into it who show too.Read the guide
- RelatedSwap in personShow your code or scan theirs; typing the six characters works too.Read the guide
- RelatedBlock or report someoneFrom the person’s page or an ask, choose Block or Report. They are never told.Read the guide
More about this on Meeting people, one of our feature pages.
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Reviewed 12 November 2026 and checked against the app that day. General information as at 12 November 2026, not legal, tax or financial advice. Screens show example data.